Not your Biological Kids..........

[Carmell]

Ok here's the scenario,
You( no kids) and your *bf/gf, fiance are planning on being together for a long time and share an apartment and he/she has kid(s) , however the kid(s) are not living with he/she and it is just the two of you and he/she speaks to the kid(s) often via telephone, letters and that is the extent of that, then suddenly for whatever reason,out of his/her control get's the news that the kid(s) are comming to LIVE with you & bf/gf what would you do?

Would you raise your bf/gf Kid(s) even if you do not have kids of your own and want your own one day?? Would you break it off over this?

*bf/gf=boyfriend/girlfriend

[Trina Moulton-Carroll]

When you love someone you love their kids. If you want to break it off you didn't love them.

[Eugene Van Nostrand (Gene)]

I can relate to this topic. I had a g/f who has a kid, and I was always there for the two of them 110% until she decided from out of nowhere that she no longer wanted me., but wanted to remain friends. After some thinking, and since we did grow up together, I did try to stay friends with her. It was an ongoing battle, because although she stated that she wanted to stay friends, she was not so convincing in her role. After almost 2 years of post relayionship friendship, I finally had to call it quits on that. Yeah, it hurts, but I have to do what is right for me... and trying to be a friend to someone who won't meet me halfway just isn't right. Going to church is really helping me deal with it, and see this as one of God's blessings in disguise. I will move on, but at the same time, keep her and her child in my prayers. That is what they need the most.

Will I go with someone who has kids again? Sure, and I will be there once more for all, because a relationship isn't just between a man and a woman. It also includes children. True love has no limitations and no conditions!

[Lauren]

That seems like a tough situation, but no, I wouldnt break it off. I love children and would still love and raise my s/o's children as my own.